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Terrible Intimacy

Melvin Patrick Ely on Interracial Life in the Slaveholding South

Published on April 14, 2026 (Episode 450)

Introduction

In the generation just before the Civil War, something like one-quarter of America’s enslaved people lived on large plantations with fifty or more forced laborers—in essence, work camps, where contact with whites might be limited and mostly utilitarian. Another quarter lived on plantations where twenty to fifty persons were held in slavery. The typical owner of, say, thirty captive Black workers knew his enslaved people individually, even if their true feelings often remained hidden from him.

That leaves half the South’s enslaved population living on properties where fewer than twenty Black people were held in bondage. Households that included five or ten enslaved people were very numerous. Callousness and exploitation were baked into the system, but slavery on this scale also required physical closeness between white and Black. In A Terrible Intimacy, Melvin Patrick Ely uses the court records of Prince Edward County, Virginia to reconstruct what that closeness meant in practice—and what it reveals about power, knowledge, and human relationships within slavery.

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About the Guest

Melvin Patrick Ely is an eminent historian of slavery and the American South. He is the author of Israel on the Appomattox: A Southern Experiment in Freedom from the 1790s to the Civil War, which received the Bancroft Prize in 2005. His latest book, A Terrible Intimacy: Interracial Life in the Slaveholding South, draws on decades of archival work, particularly in the court records of Prince Edward County, Virginia.


Reflection Questions

  1. What does “intimacy” mean in a system defined by coercion and inequality?

  2. How does proximity shape power—does it soften it, obscure it, or intensify it?

  3. What kinds of knowledge did enslavers possess—and what remained beyond their reach?

  4. How does a “think aloud” help you understand how a historian thinks?


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